I think Durham definitely needs to hold a Grilled Cheese Invitational. I should be one of the judges because nobody is as much of a grilled cheese connoisseur as I am. I have attempted to make grilled cheese sammiches out of so many breads and cheeses that I can't even keep track. (Link via boingboing).
Also, speaking of Durham stuff: Mariachis this Friday night at Taqueria Lopez. 7 pm. It's way fun. You should go.